The lowest arms of the almond tree
hang scrawny, leafless, dark:
a reminder of winter.
I take off my paper sun hat
sweating (why did I wear black?)
sun bleached by a thin cloud veil
pushing the sleeping baby uphill,
He’s poured water over a scarf that
I’ve arranged to shade him
and my red wool bag strap
bleeds pink into the blue.
His muscular eyebrows furrow
beneath dirty blond curls, the boy who was
dreamt of being welcomed by the arms of his
in a Persian aunt’s sleeping head.
“Let us see your hair,” they had urged me;
“Is it real, the colour? Can we touch it?”
I grinned painfully, was their doll for a while,
let them thread my puny brows,
ruthlessly devoid forehead and top lip
of hairs only Iranian women can see.
We European women have been liberated of
facial hair! I cried inwardly, eyes watering
with each every rip.
(She did do an excellent job.
My eyebrows, in dye, came alive.)
In the women’ section of the bus in Tehran
girls in school uniform laughed
still too pubescent to be allowed
the monthly ritual of a trip to the salon
their black brows luscious and combed
combined with blood red lips.
We got off a speeding fine
en route to Isfahan
because of the “khariji” guests
in the car: the free pass
that Europe grants
and who would rather pay?
“He’s so cute and blond,
he looks just like you!”
My husband says I’m his amulet,
lucky charm in official places,
a signal that he’s a
Middle Eastern Man Done Good.
But there is a ruefulness to his good fortune:
they glare at him like a shopkeeper at a thief.
He asks me not to wear a headscarf
lest they think he’s forced me.
Greedily, I seek out our son’s Asian features
glowing to think he’s struck out from
pork scratching pink
the pasty British skin on
a nose they’ve chosen to
sever from the face of the continent
forgetting the Viking, Saxon, Norman,
Roman and yet more exotic genes.
How they praise him
for his pallour
to his caramel father’s ears.
A talisman. Not powerful enough to
stop the waiter snubbing his order
sneering at his polite reminder
or when, at the police commissary,
trying to fix my residency
after six years as an illegal American
always treated as though I belong
the Spanish official barked at him
for his papers – in order since a decade ago –
checked them on the system, tossed
the card back without meeting his eye.
(If they only knew
what a nightmare I am to live with
they would see he is my talisman, his patience
We need to raise colour blind kids!
I rant silently on insomniac nights.
Those of us at the top of this
pyramid of privilege
didn’t rise here because of the
buoyancy of our merit:
our forebears clawed their way up
trampling millions of black and brown backs
and no-one else can rise until we step down because
we are taking up space!
Wash your feet honey:
they’re black with dirt.
Malaga is easy to fly through, I say.
Not for me, says she – they always make me
show under my skirt, my hijab.
Oh! Really? That’s outrageous!
But, you know, she says, drawing a circle
with one finger around her face,
wry Somali smile.
I don’t wear hijab through airports.
Am I being practical, or cowardly?
Would I beat out every last bandit
every ugly, self-congratulating thought
expose their emptiness as
if I put myself in the same
rocking, overcrowded boat
with the flimsy life jackets
and the leaking hold?
We reach my parents’ house
forbidding black gates,
cornflower blue door.
Beside is a bougainvillea
bursting alternately with
deep fuchsia and
palest green lanterns.
Inside the summerhouse
the dark wood stain has bled through knots
forming irrevocable pools on the blond wood.
“Make me a new sandwich!”
“I took out the avocado…”
“But there’s still a stain
on the bread!”
My daughter is fuming, tearful;
a veil of reddish clay lies over her face
wiped unthinkingly at craft time earlier
and two tears have dried
leaving pale tracks with brown outlines.
Clean your face, honey,
your tears have run brown.
Every story is edited at bedtime,
the blackness accidental, not evil
the lily white princess made ruddy and tanned
her long golden hair darkened
water babies not just cherubic because they’ve been
washed of all that terrible oafish soot but
pure of heart and soul.
At the Jumu’ah meal she asks,
Are angels white?
With exquisite Senegalese women on all sides
I answer, no, they’re made of pure light:
light is all of the colors put together.
But science won’t stop her from thinking it.
Our heads need cleaning! I declaim silently
All these messages upon messages
that make us look down on others!
Black is beautiful. Brown is gorgeous.
Look at her style.
Sweetie, I can’t explain I why,
walls just look better white.
The kids splash my notebook
and the turqouise ink splits
inexplicably to vivid pink
I write my second draft
in indelible black.